Facesitting is a sexual practice where one partner sits on the other’s face, often as a form of oral sex or to indulge in the sensations and aromas of the genitals or anus. This act can be an integral part of various sexual activities, including BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism, and Masochism) practices, where it may be used to assert dominance or to explore themes of control and submission.
In the context of sexual health and wellness, it’s essential to approach facesitting, like any sexual activity, with open communication, consent, and safety. Here are some key considerations:
Consent: Ensure that all parties involved have given their explicit consent to engage in facesitting. This is not only about safety but also about respecting the boundaries and desires of everyone involved.
Hygiene: Good hygiene is crucial for comfort and health. Encourage all participants to maintain good personal hygiene, especially in the areas that will be in close contact.
Communication: Communication is key in any sexual activity. Talk about what feels good, what doesn’t, and any boundaries or concerns. Safe words can be particularly useful in activities that involve elements of dominance and submission.
Safety: Be mindful of the physical safety of the participants. Ensure that the person being sat upon can breathe comfortably and that their neck and back are not strained. The sitting partner should also be considerate of the other’s comfort and safety, avoiding putting too much pressure or weight.
Education: Educating oneself about the practice, including how to do it safely and consensually, can enhance the experience. There are numerous resources available online, including guides and videos, that can provide tips and insights.
Respect and Aftercare: Respect the desires and limits of your partner(s), and prioritize aftercare. Aftercare involves checking in with each other after the sexual activity, ensuring everyone is comfortable and consenting to any further interaction.
Facesitting, when practiced with consent, respect, and attention to safety, can be a fulfilling and enjoyable sexual activity for those who are interested in it. It’s a reminder that sexual expression and pleasure are highly individualized, and what works for one person or couple may not work for another. The most important aspect of any sexual activity is that it is consensual, safe, and enjoyable for all parties involved.
